Rehearse the conversation you keep postponing.
Feedback to a peer, pushback to your boss, or the thing you have avoided for months.
You have rehearsed it a hundred times silently and it still comes out wrong.
What Vera actually is
A phone call with someone who is not there. You say the thing out loud, they answer the way a real person would, and you get to do it again — as many times as it takes, with nobody listening.
15 minutes free · no card needed
15 minutes free · no card needed
Not practising doesn’t save you anything.
The ticket, the evening, the weeks of applying — all of it is spent before anyone says a word. The practice is the only cheap part, and the only part that changes how the rest goes.
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What she'll actually ask
She asks these the way a real person would, then follows up on whatever you say.
- What is the one sentence you need to say?
- What is the reaction you are most worried about?
- They get defensive immediately. What now?
- They agree and then change nothing. What do you say next time?
- What outcome would count as a good result?
More about this one
Difficult workplace conversations get rehearsed internally, where you control both sides and it always goes well. Out loud, with someone reacting unpredictably, is a different exercise — and it is the one that transfers. Vera plays the other person: defensive, dismissive, upset, or calm, whichever version you are most worried about, so the first time you say the words is not the time it counts.
What she listens for
- difficult conversation
- peer feedback
- managing up
- conflict resolution
- setting boundaries at work
- defensive reaction
- direct communication
- workplace conflict
“I had the conversation in my head for four months. Saying it out loud twice was what actually got me to have it.”
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Common questions
Can it play someone specific?
Describe how they typically react and it will hold that persona reasonably well.
What if I get emotional?
Better on a practice call than in the room. It is worth finding out where the emotion sits.
Is this useful for giving performance feedback?
Yes — the defensive-reaction version is the most useful rehearsal available.
What if I am bad at it?
Everyone is, on the first one. That is the entire reason it happens here and not there.
What if I do not know what to say?
She asks the first question and follows up on whatever you answer. You never start from a blank page.
What if it is awkward?
It is, for about twenty seconds. Then it is a conversation, and nobody heard the twenty seconds.
Ready to try it?
Your first 15 minutes are free. No card required.